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Waking up new beautiful day every day
Freedom and agency privilege to face reality
Who decides?
Are we all just trying to make things good in our lives?
Are we all just trying to make things good in our lives?
And ill-informed we side with violence, hatred, despair and out of the desperation we kill heedlessly.
This system which governs our bodies disproportionaly affects Black and Brown bodies negatively.
Rise up if you hear the call to rise
Rise up! and hear the good words
No justice, no peace
No justice, no peace
No justice, no peace
No justice, no peace
Step up and confront your Whiteness
The power structures which uphold your White Supremacy must be overturned unlearned
The etchings they have left in our bodies must be burned
If there will ever be a free country there is work to be done by everyone.
We must learn, we must fight together
Some of us gotta learn more than others
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When I was sixteen years old I was a running man
A vegetarian
And I’d run five miles a day minimum with the team at Potomac Falls High School in Sterling, Virginia
We were dominating cross country in Loudoun County and the Northern Virginia region going on ten years, the best team
And my coach would always pep us up with wonderful talks before a workout encouraging us in the manner of an old wise crotchety relative
Encouraging us to keep trying and persevering through the adversity that is long distance running
“You don’t do it cause it feels good
You don’t do it cause it makes you feel good afterwards
You do it to challenge yourself your mind soul body and self most importantly yourself”
Skills you learn running eight or ten miles in the hot sun without a break, without stopping, without water
They are lessons you carry with you
the rest of your life on into your old age
I’d always say to myself,
“If I can run if I can make it through this race alive
then I can do pretty much anything I set my mind to.”
And I kept up in school and kept up practicing guitar, and I kept up thinking about what I could do
And I had a righteous state of mind, ill-informed yet still powerful in it’s own way, to be a vegetarian from age thirteen because my parents said “Oh you won’t last a week”
And playing guitar, trying to figure out the fretboard
while my friends beat themselves up about their times
"Sub eighteen minutes for a 3k ain’t good enough"
I always thought while I was running I would say to myself, in my head, keeping steady pace, I would say
“At the end of this there will be relief
Water to drink to slake your thirst
and there’s a cool grass shade to stretch your aching legs
So run harder, don’t let your feet win
Don’t slow down cause that’s the worst thing you can do except stop”
Push myself to my limits, to my mental limits and I knew, I learned my mental limits were strong
The bond of two, the bond of consciousness and flesh and bone and blood it all connects to
And at the end of my junior year season my shins were giving out from underneath, stress fractures
and I had to cut my season short anyway
sit my legs in icy baths just to get the tendrils of pain to fade away
and the next year after killing myself to get good grades to get 4s and 5s on special tests, very special tests
I quit the team and joined a band
I was playing guitar so often
gig after gig event after event rehearsing constantly
and I became extremely disillusioned with high school
I had such high expectations
I wanted the world on its feet for us and all the resources of the best school system in the country at my disposal
while my friends smoked pot, cigarettes blew school off and fucked around
I was trying to make it through seventeen seasons of South Park on Netflix and dating one of my best friends and decide if I should go to school
“Do you wanna go to a big school lots of people
or do you wanna go to a small school with fewer people?”
How the fuck was I supposed to know what kind of school small or large, private, public, in state, out of state?
I’d subject myself to it for the next 4 years
How the fuck was I supposed to know?
And in school I was constantly disappointed by the classwork, by the intelligence of the people who were supposed to be my peers
So basically I said “Fuck school just let me pass
and I won’t disrupt your class any more than I have to”
So I was just pretty much dedicating all my time to being in a band or a few at a time
Booking shows and writing songs securing bands for dates and trying to meet as many people I could
And my willpower was stretched out of me
It’s not like running a race
It’s not like eating peppers instead of meat
And I relied on the ones I was intimate with enormously for emotional support because I couldn’t cope with my inner feelings, discontent and anger,
no matter how many drumbeats I learned or shows I screamed the whole time
Something was missing always
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Now I can look back on that fine year after high school coming back to Sterling still working on the band still trying to keep my girlfriend interested in me
And after that year fucking around in school, started drinking
Started smoking pot
And I can’t believe I made it through my spring semester twenty-sixteen
I barely scraped by with Cs
There was one day I was at my friends apartment we were passing the bong and I hit that shit
And I missed eight a.m. history exam
And I missed eleven a.m. exam
And I’m not sure if it was not divine intervention that allowed me to not fail out
And even working on a music festival with my best friends couldn’t keep my willpower from leaving me
Nobody likes to work on music festivals
That’s not why you have a music festival
And after that year I was so disillusioned and overwhelmed with life my friends their addictions their bad habits I had to cut myself off from them for a while, moved to a different house
Where the addictions seemed more integrated
and in my fucked up state of mind that was what I needed
And that ended up being the saddest year of my life
I split up with my partner once early in the year
and that pretty much set the stage for things
We got back together and resolved the argument
I sought treatment for my mental illness
They had me on these blue pills and I’d sleep all day
That didn’t keep up, I just tried to stay in school and work at the Performing Arts Center
I learned more about recording and mixing, acoustics and being a stagehand and the professions therein
So we decided we were gonna move to Rhode Island
She was gonna get her master’s and I was gonna leave
the state that was my home for twenty-two years, twenty-two years
So I graduated and walked across that stage
My family came out we had tacos downtown
And my dad and sister didn’t fight or bicker
Cause they were there for me
And my best friend’s family bought him a hundred beers
for our graduation party which was basically just a gathering on our porch
We had a pretty good crowd crackin beers having a good time not giving a flying fuck about anything, anything, anything
But that night at a party down the street
I lost control
It’s a curse of my Irish ancestry
and I remember everything
It still brings me shame to this day
It was my willpower that left me
Hanging by a thread
And I had so much unresolved energy
Two days later I packed up my shit and left
and I came back to my parents house
Month of May twenty-eighteen, rainiest May in recent history
June came
I moved to Rhode Island
With the love of my life
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